These people do not necessarily share outdoors pressures to get married (like monetary or familial ones), but quite have put the pressure on themselves. «Sometimes, we believe that relationship issues will resolve themselves with marriage, however the opposite is often true,» Dr. Jess O’Reilly, host of the @SexWithDrJess Podcast, tells Bustle. «I personally had a four-month engagement and had a lot enjoyable every single day of planning!» says Lynn Easton,